When a loved one dies,
it is customary to inform their circle of acquaintances so that, if they see
fit, they accompany the family in the hard moments of the farewell. This
communication is normally done through obituaries.
However, due to their
many similarities, obituaries can be confused with obituaries that are also
published in the media.
What are they exactly?
How are they different from obituaries? Where can you find examples? We see it
below.
What is an obituary?
An obituary is an
obituary section of a newspaper, a section that provides information about the
deceased person. It is also the parish book in which the death and burial
certificates of the parishioners are recorded.
Is an obituary the same as an
obituary?
Both terms are often
confused since they have several points in common, such as the fact that they
are information related to the death of a person that appears in the media.
Obituaries are death
notices that include information about the funeral. They are used to inform
relatives, friends or acquaintances of the deceased about the loss so that they
can accompany the family if they wish.
The obituary, on the other hand,
informs about the death without necessarily giving details of the funeral, in
texts that are used to review the person's trajectory and are generally not
commissioned by the family. It is not an advertisement, but a journalistic
text, so the length is also an obvious difference.
It is worth mentioning
that both terms can be used as synonyms in some Latin American countries, which
may explain the confusion.
Obituaries on social networks
Obituaries on social
networks tend more to spontaneity and are usually presented as small tributes
to that deceased loved one.
Someone in the family,
by the mere desire to do so, can write a few words of affection that serve as a
memory, and that will surely generate comments of condolences. A support that
always helps to make the duel more bearable.
On many occasions, the
relative or friend is the one who writes the obituary on their personal
profile, on other occasions said obituary is published on the wall of the
deceased person. In this way, the profile of the person who has left becomes a
space for homage, an option that can be made official by carrying out the
corresponding procedure. Facebook, for example, offers such a possibility.
Apart from the above,
you should know that there are funeral homes that make their own profiles or
the web available to families to report the death. In this way, the funeral
agency gives news coverage to the event, and the family can share the post or
tweet on their profiles.
Examples in newspapers
The main headers
reserve obituary spaces for both obituaries and obituaries.
At the beginning of
April, when the former Atletico de Madrid coach Radomir Antic died, El Pais
dedicated an “in memoriam” (obituary) text to him entitled “Antic, the Kasparov
of the benches”.
Like El Pais, the
newspapers El Mundo, ABC, El Correo, El Confidencial and many others,
frequently publish obituaries, both on paper and online. Another figure to whom
texts have been dedicated lately has been the singer-songwriter Luis Eduardo
Aute. El Confidencial, for example, headlined it "Luis Eduardo Aute dies,
the great seducer and dissident of pop."
In short, the obituary
is a text that is presented as a tribute, and that is generally not
commissioned by the family, does not give details of the funeral and is quite
long. Those are, then, the main differences with the obituary.